3.  Write a prayer in which you ask God to bless the other person. Include a petition that the Holy Spirit will guide you in finding ways to bless the other person and avoid cursing or thinking poorly of him/her.

2. Identify at least five different ways that you can show love, care and concern to this person, even if he/she is not treating you well.

1. Consider your opponent. How have your thoughts led to think unkind things about him/her? Has this helped or hurt your ability to reconcile?