What is the underlying source of our conflicts?
Conflict Resolution vs Reconciliation - Lesson 2 - Repent Before God, Question 1, p. 27
The question of whether all desires are sinful is an important one that requires careful consideration. It's essential to recognize that not all desires are inherently sinful. To understand this better, we can look to Scripture to provide insights into the nature of human desires and their role in our lives.
In the text from Conflict Resolution vs Reconciliation, we are reminded that while God is concerned with our actions, He also looks at our hearts and the desires that drive our behaviors. Conflict can often arise from misunderstandings or differences in perspectives or goals. However, the Bible teaches us that our fights and quarrels are frequently caused by a certain type of desire. James 4:1-3 states:
"What causes quarrels and what causes fights among you? Is it not this, that your passions are at war within you? You desire and do not have, so you murder. You covet and cannot obtain, so you fight and quarrel. You do not have because you do not ask. You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your passions."
James describes desires that stem from selfishness and covetousness—desires that lead to strife and conflict. These are the kinds of desires that are sinful because they prioritize self-interest over the well-being of others and disregard God's will. This aligns with the temptation in Genesis 3:5, where the serpent entices Eve by saying, "For God knows that when you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil." The desire to be like God, to attain knowledge and power apart from Him, is a sinful desire rooted in pride.
However, not all desires are sinful. There are desires that align with God's will and reflect His character. For example, the desire for justice, compassion, and love are godly desires. These desires promote peace, reconciliation, and the flourishing of God's creation.
In the light of the Gospel, we are called to examine our desires and submit them to God's will. Through the transformative power of the Holy Spirit, we can cultivate desires that honor God and serve others. The Gospel proclaims that Jesus Christ came to redeem us from our sinful desires and to reshape our hearts to desire what is good and pleasing to God.
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