What does it mean to restore with gentleness?
Conflict Resolution vs Reconciliation - Lesson 6, Restore with Gentleness, Question 12, p. 89
When addressing another person's sins, we can often find ourselves navigating treacherous waters. Galatians 6:1 warns us of the temptation to fall into sin ourselves: "Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted." This admonition is crucial as it sets the tone for how we should approach such delicate situations.
One way we might be tempted is by allowing our anger to simmer and fester. Ephesians 4:26-27 advises, "Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and give no opportunity to the devil." Anger, when left unchecked, can lead to judgmental and harsh attitudes that are contrary to the spirit of gentleness we are called to embody. Our emotional response, if not managed properly, can become a foothold for sin, both in our actions and our hearts.
Another temptation is to fall into the trap of hypocrisy. Romans 2:1 cautions us, "Therefore you have no excuse, O man, every one of you who judges. For in passing judgment on another you condemn yourself, because you, the judge, practice the very same things." It is easy to forget our own flaws and weaknesses when we are focused on pointing out the failings of others. This hypocrisy not only damages our credibility but also dishonors the grace we have received.
Ephesians 6:4 further reminds us of our responsibility, particularly in the context of family, to approach correction in a manner that fosters growth rather than resentment: "Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." This principle can be applied more broadly in our interactions with others, ensuring that our approach does not provoke or discourage but gently guides towards restoration.
Let us always remember the gospel promise in Psalm 103:11-12: "For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his steadfast love toward those who fear him; as far as the east is from the west, so far does he remove our transgressions from us." This profound truth reminds us of the boundless grace and forgiveness we have received and are called to extend to others in our journey of faith.
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