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Our Inner Reactions to Conflict

Writer: Dwight SchettlerDwight Schettler
6 hours ago2 min read

What are the dangers of anger?

Conflict Resolution vs Reconciliation - Lesson 4 - Confess to the Other Person, Question 11, p. 58

In our daily lives, we may encounter various conflicts that test our patience and emotions. While some people may express anger and disrespect outwardly, many of us experience these feelings internally. It is essential to recognize that our inner reactions to conflict can be just as sinful in God's eyes as outward expressions. When we lose our temper or harbor negative thoughts, we risk saying hurtful things that cause harm rather than fostering healing.


Paul's letter to the Ephesians offers us valuable guidance on how to manage our speech and emotions during conflicts. Ephesians 4:29 states, "Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear." This verse reminds us of the power of our words and the importance of choosing them wisely. Even in moments of frustration, we should strive to speak words that uplift and encourage others, rather than tearing them down.


It can be challenging to maintain a calm and gracious demeanor when faced with conflict, but it is crucial for our spiritual growth. Inner anger and resentment can fester and lead to bitterness, which hinders our relationship with God and others. By consciously seeking to control our thoughts and words, and confessing this to God to receive His forgiveness, we're empowered to demonstrate love and compassion towards those around us.


In moments of weakness, we can find comfort and strength in the gospel message from Colossians 3. Verses 12-14 encourage us to "put on compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony." These words remind us that we are called to embody Christ-like qualities and extend grace to others, just as God has shown us grace.


While we may not always show outward anger or disrespect, our inner reactions to conflict are equally significant. By adhering to Ephesians 4:29 and embracing the gospel comfort from Colossians 3, we are embowered to navigate conflicts with a heart full of love, patience, and forgiveness, ultimately bringing healing and unity in our relationships.


 

This blog series is adapted from Conflict Resolution vs Reconciliation. You can experience this teaching in several ways:

 
 
 

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