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The Far-Reaching Impact of Angry Words

Writer: Dwight SchettlerDwight Schettler

What are the dangers of anger?

Conflict Resolution vs Reconciliation - Lesson 4 - Confess to the Other Person, Question 12, p. 58

Angry words bear a heavy weight. They don't just injure the individual they are directed towards; their impact reverberates far and wide, affecting not only relationships but also the community and our spiritual well-being.


When we express anger through harsh words, the immediate victim is, of course, the person to whom the words are directed. This individual may experience feelings of hurt, betrayal, and diminished self-worth. However, the consequences extend beyond this direct interaction. Others who witness or hear about the exchange may also feel distressed and uncomfortable, leading to a strained atmosphere.


Ephesians 4:30 reminds us, "And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption." Our words and actions have the power to grieve the Holy Spirit, highlighting that the effects of our anger are not merely confined to our earthly relationships but also impact our spiritual connection with God.

Furthermore, when anger and harsh words become a pattern, they can contribute to a toxic environment where hostility and mistrust flourish. This can erode the foundation of communities, workplaces, and families, making it difficult to nurture kindness, understanding, and collaboration.


In acknowledging the damage caused by angry words, it is imperative to turn to forgiveness and compassion as a pathway to healing. Psalm 103:8-9 proclaims, "The Lord is merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love. He will not always chide, nor will he keep his anger forever." Embracing these qualities encourages us to seek and offer forgiveness, allowing us to mend broken relationships and restore harmony.


Let us strive to speak with love and patience, remembering that our words hold the power to build up or tear down. In moments of anger, may we choose the path of grace and forgiveness, healing ourselves and those around us.


 

This blog series is adapted from Conflict Resolution vs Reconciliation. You can experience this teaching in several ways:

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