What are the dangers of anger?
Conflict Resolution vs Reconciliation - Lesson 4 - Confess to the Other Person, Question 17, p. 59
Anger is an emotion that, if not properly managed, can have a devastating impact our lives and relationships. Both the book of Proverbs and the epistle of James in the Bible caution against the perils of anger and offer guidance on how to effectively handle it.
Proverbs 14:29 states, "Whoever is slow to anger has great understanding, but he who has a hasty temper exalts folly." This verse highlights that impatience and quick-temperedness often lead to foolish actions. When we allow anger to control us, we lose the ability to think rationally and make wise decisions. The consequences can be severe, affecting not only ourselves but also those around us.
Proverbs 15:1 offers another insight: "A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." This verse emphasizes the power of our words. Anger can escalate conflicts, while gentle speech can diffuse tension and foster peace. When we respond to provocations with harshness, we risk intensifying disputes and damaging relationships.
Proverbs 22:24-25 advises, "Make no friendship with a man given to anger, nor go with a wrathful man, lest you learn his ways and entangle yourself in a snare." Associating with angry individuals can influence our behavior negatively. Their anger can become a snare, leading us into situations that could have been avoided. It is wise to seek relationships that promote calm and understanding.
James 1:20 reveals a critical truth: "For the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God." Human anger often leads to actions and attitudes that are contrary to God's righteousness. It obstructs our spiritual growth and hinders our ability to live according to God's will.
As we reflect on these scriptures, it is important to turn to the gospel proclamation found in Colossians 3:12-14: "Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony."
Through the gospel, we are called to embrace attributes that counteract anger: compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, patience, and above all, love. Confessing our anger to God, and receiving His forgiveness empower us to overcome anger and cultivate harmonious relationships, reflecting the character of Christ in our daily lives.
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