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Who is Responsible for Taking the First Step?

Writer: Dwight SchettlerDwight Schettler
10 hours ago2 min read

Who is responsible for taking the first step?

Conflict Resolution vs Reconciliation - Lesson 4 - Confess to the Other Person, Question 19, p. 60

Reconciliation is exceedingly important to our Savior, Jesus. According to God's Word, the responsibility of initiating reconciliation falls upon us, as individuals, and is clearly outlined in the scriptures.


In Matthew 5:23-24, Jesus emphasizes the urgency and importance of reconciliation: "So if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift." This passage highlights that if we know someone holds something against us, it is our duty to seek reconciliation before continuing with our worship. The act of reconciliation is so vital that it takes precedence even over religious offerings.


Similarly, Matthew 18:15 instructs us on how to handle a situation where someone has sinned against us: "If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother." Here, the emphasis is on the offended party taking the initiative to address the wrong privately and directly. This approach not only facilitates resolution but also preserves the dignity of the relationship.


Romans 12:18 further encapsulates the essence of pursuing peace: "If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all." This verse acknowledges that while peace may not always be attainable due to circumstances beyond our control, we are called to make every effort to reconcile and live in harmony with others.


Forgiveness is at the heart of reconciliation, and it is through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ that we are empowered to forgive. As 1 Peter 2:24 proclaims, "He himself bore our sins in his body on the tree, that we might die to sin and live to righteousness. By his wounds you have been healed." This profound truth reminds us that Christ's ultimate act of love and forgiveness is the foundation upon which we can extend forgiveness to others, thereby initiating reconciliation.


The responsibility of taking the initiative in reconciliation, according to God's Word, lies with each of us as God's children. Whether we are the offender or the offended, we are called to seek peace, address wrongs, and embody the forgiveness extended to us through Christ. May we strive to live in harmony, reflecting the love and grace that we have received. Go ahead. Take the first step. Your Jesus will hold your hand to guide you.


 

This blog series is adapted from Conflict Resolution vs Reconciliation. You can experience this teaching in several ways:

 
 
 

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