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The Erosion of Contrition in Modern Culture

Writer: Dwight SchettlerDwight Schettler

How can the idolatrous sinner be reconciled to God?

Conflict Resolution vs Reconciliation - Lesson 3 - Receive God's Forgiveness, Questions 20, p. 47

Repentance, a cornerstone of the Christian faith, begins with contrition—a sincere acknowledgment of sin and a heartfelt sorrow for having offended God. However, in our contemporary culture, true contrition is often minimized or overlooked altogether.


One primary reason for this is the pervasive culture of self-justification. Society frequently promotes the idea that individuals are inherently good and that mistakes are simply learning opportunities rather than moral failings. This perspective is reflected in the widespread reluctance to admit guilt or accept responsibility. As Proverbs 28:13 warns, "Whoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy."


Another contributing factor is the normalization of sin. Behaviors once considered morally unacceptable are now often celebrated or at least tolerated. This cultural shift desensitizes people to the gravity of sin, making genuine contrition seem unnecessary or outdated. Romans 12:2 cautions, "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect."


Moreover, the relentless pursuit of happiness and personal fulfillment can also undermine contrition. When the ultimate goal is self-satisfaction, there is little room for the discomfort of admitting wrongdoing and experiencing sorrow for sin. Yet, true contrition is essential for authentic repentance and spiritual growth. As Psalm 51:17 reminds us, "The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise."


While our culture may minimize contrition, the Scriptures call us to a higher standard of self-examination and repentance. The good news is that God's mercy is boundless for those who seek Him with a contrite heart. As Psalm 103:11-12 beautifully promises, "For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his steadfast love toward those who fear him; as far as the east is from the west, so far does he remove our transgressions from us."


 

This blog series is adapted from Conflict Resolution vs Reconciliation. You can experience this teaching in several ways:

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