Who needs to be reconciled?
Conflict Resolution vs Reconciliation - Lesson 1 - Remember Whose You Are - Question 13, p. 16
In the teachings of Jesus, reconciliation holds a vital place, particularly in the context of relationships among believers. According to Matthew 5:23-24, Jesus emphasizes the importance of reconciliation prior to worship: “So if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.” Here, Jesus underscores the necessity of addressing any grievances someone may have against us before approaching God. The act of offering a gift at the altar signifies worship and devotion, yet Jesus indicates that the state of our human relationships takes precedence over religious rituals, even worship!
Matthew 18:15 offers further guidance on reconciliation: “If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother.” This instruction highlights a proactive approach to resolving conflicts. When someone sins against us, Jesus calls us to initiate a private conversation aimed at restoration and healing. The goal is not merely to point out the fault but to win back the relationship, reflecting God’s heart for unity and harmony within His family.
These passages collectively answer the question of who needs to be reconciled: both the one who has caused offense and the one who has been offended. Jesus’ teachings affirm that reconciliation is a two-way street, requiring humility, courage, and grace from both parties involved.
God’s grace is magnificently highlighted in these teachings. Even in the midst of conflict, His grace empowers us to seek reconciliation. It is by grace that we recognize our faults, approach others in love, and restore broken relationships. Through reconciliation, we mirror the grace that God extends to us daily, fostering peace and unity within the body of Christ.
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