What if the other person refuses to repent?
Conflict Resolution vs Reconciliation - Lesson 6, Restore with Gentleness, Question 29, p. 92
When life throws its inevitable challenges our way, the call to remain faithful to God and His Word persists. This steadfast faithfulness finds its grounding in the scriptures, providing us with the wisdom and strength to navigate our journey. Romans 12:18 offers profound insight into what our ultimate responsibility is, and what it is not:
“If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.”
From this passage, we understand that our ultimate responsibility is to strive for peace. As Christians, we are called to be peacemakers in a world often riddled with conflict and discord. The emphasis here is on our effort—"if possible" and "so far as it depends on you." This means that we should do everything within our power to foster peace in our relationships and communities. It is a proactive effort, requiring patience, understanding, and sometimes sacrifice. By living peaceably, we reflect the love and grace that God has bestowed upon us, thereby honoring Him and His Word.
However, Romans 12:18 also subtly highlights what is NOT our responsibility. The phrase "if possible" recognizes that despite our best efforts, peace may not always be attainable. The outcome of our endeavors to live peaceably is not in our control, and thus not our responsibility. We are not accountable for others' actions or their willingness to reciprocate peace. Our duty is limited to our efforts and intentions, and we must release ourselves from the burden of ensuring peace in every circumstance. Faithfulness to God lies in doing our part wholeheartedly, trusting Him with the rest.
Romans 12:18 guides us to understand that our ultimate responsibility is to strive for peace as far as it depends on us. It reassures us that while we must make every effort to live peaceably, we are not responsible for the outcome. Trusting in God's sovereignty allows us to remain steadfast in our faith, regardless of the circumstances. Whatever happens, we are called to be faithful to God and His Word, embodying His love and peace in our lives.
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