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Reconciliation is Born Out of Mutual Confession and Forgiveness

Writer: Dwight SchettlerDwight Schettler

How does restoring others relate to reconciliation?

Conflict Resolution vs Reconciliation - Lesson 6, Restore with Gentleness, Questions 32-35, p. 93


Reconciliation is a vital part of our spiritual journey, and it requires two essential components: confession and forgiveness. As discussed in earlier blog posts, these acts are crucial for healing relationships. True reconciliation between two individuals often involves mutual confession and forgiveness, creating a foundation for a restored relationship.


We can initiate reconciliation by confessing our own sins and seeking forgiveness, acknowledging the wrongs we have committed (see Expressing Godly Sorrow: Guidelines for Confession). This honest self-reflection opens the door for the other person to extend forgiveness, mirroring the way God has forgiven them. The process is gentle and respectful, aiming to help the other person recognize their own sins without judgment. When they repent, we can declare God’s forgiveness, assuring them of their reconciliation with Him (see Proclaiming God's Forgiveness).


Forgiveness is a profound act of grace. By forgiving others as God has forgiven us, we embody the spirit of divine mercy. This mutual exchange of confession and forgiveness fosters healing, mending the fractures in our relationships. It is through this shared experience that reconciliation is truly achieved, bringing peace and unity (see Forgive as God Forgave You).


As we navigate the challenges of reconciliation, let us always trust in Christ’s forgiveness. 1 Peter 2:24 reminds us, "He himself bore our sins in his body on the tree, that we might die to sin and live to righteousness. By his wounds you have been healed." This powerful truth encourages us to rely on Christ’s unfailing grace, knowing that His sacrifice has paved the way for our own forgiveness and reconciliation.


 

This blog series is adapted from Conflict Resolution vs Reconciliation. You can experience this teaching in several ways:

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