What does it mean to restore with gentleness?
Conflict Resolution vs Reconciliation - Lesson 6, Restore with Gentleness, Questions 13-18, p. 89
As believers, we find guidance in Paul's letters, particularly in Colossians 3:12-17. This passage speaks to our identity as Christians and outlines the virtues we are to embody in our daily lives. He writes, "Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God."
Why Does Paul Call Us "Holy and Beloved"?
In Colossians 3:12, Paul refers to the faithful as "God's chosen ones, holy and beloved." This designation is deeply significant, underscoring our unique status in God's eyes. To be "holy" means to be set apart for God's purposes, a reflection of our sanctification through faith in Jesus Christ. We are not ordinary; we are consecrated, called to live lives that honor God.
Moreover, being "beloved" conveys the profound love God has for us. This love is unconditional and eternal, reminding us of our worth and the deep bond we share with our Creator. It is this love that fuels our ability to live out the virtues Paul describes in the verses that follow.
What Should We "Put On"?
Paul exhorts us to "put on" a series of virtues that mirror the character of Christ. In Colossians 3:12-14, he lists compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience. These qualities are not mere suggestions but essential elements of a Christ-centered life.
Compassion and kindness reflect our ability to empathize and assist those in need, embodying Christ's love in action. Humility and meekness challenge us to view others above ourselves, fostering a spirit of servitude rather than pride. Patience is crucial in our interactions, allowing us to bear with one another and maintain harmony.
Above all, Paul emphasizes love as the binding force that perfects these virtues (Colossians 3:14). Love is the foundation of our actions and relationships, ensuring that our deeds are not just dutiful but genuinely heartfelt.
If We Have a Complaint Against Another, What Are We Called to Do?
Conflicts are inevitable, even within the faith community. Paul addresses this reality in Colossians 3:13, urging us to "bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you."
What is to be above all in our overall attitude and action toward one another?
According to Paul, love is the paramount virtue. Love is what binds all other virtues together in perfect harmony. It is the foundation upon which compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience are built. Love transcends all other actions and attitudes, ensuring that our interactions are anchored in genuine care and selflessness.
What should rule our hearts?
Paul's exhortation is clear: "Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts." The peace of Christ is a serene assurance that transcends understanding. It is an inner tranquility that stems from our reconciliation with God through Jesus Christ. This peace should govern our emotions and decisions, guiding us to live harmoniously with one another.
In contrast, what else might rule our hearts at times?
Unfortunately, our hearts can sometimes be ruled by things of the world: discord, anxiety, anger, and bitterness. These emotions can disrupt the peace that Christ offers, leading to conflicts and unrest in our relationships.
On what basis ought we to teach and admonish one another?
Paul emphasizes the importance of letting the word of Christ dwell richly within us: "Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly". This means immersing ourselves in Scripture and allowing its wisdom to permeate our thoughts and actions. With the word of Christ as our guide, we can teach and admonish one another with grace and truth, ensuring that our counsel is rooted in divine wisdom and love.
Forgiveness is central to Christian life. It requires us to release our grievances and extend grace, reflecting the forgiveness we have received through Christ. Forgiveness
is not always easy, but it is essential for maintaining unity and peace within the body of Christ.
By forgiving others, we emulate Christ's sacrifice and demonstrate the transformative power of grace. It is a practice that heals wounds, mends relationships, and fosters a community rooted in love and understanding.
Colossians 3:12-17 offers insights into our identity and calling as Christians. We are "holy and beloved," called to embody virtues that reflect Christ's character and to practice forgiveness, ensuring that love remains the cornerstone of our lives. Let us strive to live out these truths each day, transforming our communities and ourselves in the process.
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