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Viewing a Brother or Sister in Christ Amidst Conflict

Writer: Dwight SchettlerDwight Schettler

Who needs to be reconciled?

Conflict Resolution vs Reconciliation - Lesson 1 - Remember Whose You Are - Question 15, p. 16

In our spiritual journey, conflicts with our brothers and sisters in Christ are not uncommon. How should we view these individuals during such times? The scriptures, particularly 1 John 3:1 and 1 John 3:23, provide insight into this question.


1 John 3:1 states, "See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!" This verse reminds us of the immense love God has for each of us, identifying us as His children. When we encounter conflicts with a fellow believer, it is essential to remember that they, too, are a beloved child of God. This perspective transforms our approach, fostering compassion and understanding rather than anger and resentment.


Furthermore, 1 John 3:23 emphasizes, "And this is his command: to believe in the name of his Son, Jesus Christ, and to love one another as he commanded us." Love is at the core of our faith and the primary commandment we are given. Even in the throes of conflict, we are called to embody Christ's love towards our brothers and sisters. This means prioritizing reconciliation, empathy, and kindness, even when it is challenging.


It is crucial to highlight that our ability to love and forgive, especially in conflicts, is empowered by God's forgiveness of us. We have been forgiven for our transgressions through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ. This divine forgiveness not only cleanses us but also equips us with the grace to extend forgiveness to others. Remembering the forgiveness we have received from God can soften our hearts and guide us to act with mercy and grace.


Viewing a brother or sister in Christ amidst conflict through the lens of God's love and forgiveness enables us to navigate these challenges with a spirit of unity and compassion. Let us always strive to reflect the love and grace that we have so generously received.


 

This blog series is adapted from Conflict Resolution vs Reconciliation. You can experience this teaching in several ways:


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