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Viewing Others as Someone For Whom Christ has Died

Writer: Dwight SchettlerDwight Schettler
9 hours ago2 min read

Who needs to be reconciled?

Conflict Resolution vs Reconciliation - Lesson 1 - Remember Whose You Are - Question 15, p. 16

Conflict is an inevitable part of life. Whether it is with family members, colleagues, or friends, disagreements and misunderstandings can arise. However, as we navigate these challenging interactions, it is important to reflect on the teachings of John 3:16, which states, "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life."


This verse is a powerful reminder of God's unconditional love and the ultimate sacrifice He made for our forgiveness. When we consider how loved and forgiven we are, it should transform the way we view those with whom we are in conflict.


Firstly, John 3:16 encourages us to see others through the lens of love. Just as God loves us despite our flaws and mistakes, we are called to extend that same love to others. This means approaching conflicts with a heart of compassion and empathy, recognizing that everyone is worthy of love and respect.


Secondly, this verse reminds us of the forgiveness we have received. God's forgiveness is complete and undeserved, a gift given freely through the sacrifice of His Son. When we reflect on the magnitude of our own forgiveness, it becomes easier to extend grace to others. Holding onto grudges or seeking revenge is contrary to the example set by God’s forgiveness. Instead, we should strive to forgive those who have wronged us, understanding that forgiveness can be a powerful step towards healing and reconciliation.


Lastly, viewing others through the lens of John 3:16 means recognizing our shared humanity. We are all imperfect and in need of grace. By acknowledging this, we can foster a sense of humility and understanding, which can help to de-escalate conflicts and promote peace.


John 3:16 shows us the person with whom we have a conflict is also a person for whom Christ shed His blood for the forgiveness of their sin. It teaches us to view others with love, forgiveness, and humility. By reflecting on how loved and forgiven we are, we can approach conflicts with a renewed perspective, seeking to resolve them in a way that honors God and builds stronger, more compassionate relationships.

 

 

This blog series is adapted from Conflict Resolution vs Reconciliation. You can experience this teaching in several ways:


 
 
 

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