Walking in the Newness of Life as a Child of God
- Dwight Schettler
- Mar 13
- 2 min read
Updated: Mar 16
What does my identity in Christ have to do with conflict?
Conflict Resolution vs Reconciliation - Lesson 1 - Remember Whose You Are - Question 8, p. 15

In the hustle and bustle of daily life, conflicts at home can be inevitable. Disagreements with family members, misunderstandings, and hurtful words can create a turbulent environment. However, as believers adopted into the family of God, we have a unique perspective and resource to navigate these challenges—our adoption grants us a deeper understanding of forgiveness and grace.
Romans 6:3-4 reminds us of the transformative power of our faith: "Or don’t you know that all of us who were baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life." This passage highlights the profound change that occurs through our baptism. We die to our old selves and are reborn into a new life, one that is characterized by the same grace and forgiveness that we have received from God.
Our adoption into God's family means that we are forgiven for our sins, no matter how grave. This overwhelming forgiveness should inspire us to extend the same grace to our family members. When conflicts arise at home, we can choose to respond with patience and understanding, reflecting the love and forgiveness that God has shown us. Instead of holding onto grudges or retaliating with harsh words, we can strive to embody the spirit of forgiveness and seek reconciliation.
Furthermore, being part of God's family means that we are not alone in our struggles. We have the Holy Spirit to guide us and provide wisdom in resolving conflicts. Prayer becomes a powerful tool, allowing us to seek God's help in fostering peace and harmony within our homes.
Our adoption into the family of God profoundly impacts how we handle conflicts at home. By embracing the forgiveness and grace we have received, we can approach disagreements with a heart full of love and a desire for reconciliation. Let us remember that just as we are forgiven, we too must forgive.
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