What if the other person is not a Christian?
Conflict Resolution vs Reconciliation - Lesson 6, Restore with Gentleness, Question 31, p. 93
Conflict is an inevitable part of human relations, and Christians often face a dilemma on how to handle it according to their faith.
John 15:20 states, "Remember the word that I said to you: 'A servant is not greater than his master.' If they persecuted me, they will also persecute you. If they kept my word, they will also keep yours." This verse suggests that Christians should expect persecution and conflict as a natural consequence of following Christ. The approach to conflict here is one of perseverance and faithfulness. While people may indeed take advantage of a Christian's humility and peace-seeking nature, the underlying message is that such trials are to be expected and endured as part of one's spiritual journey.
Romans 12:14 advises, "Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them." This passage encourages Christians to respond to conflict with grace and kindness. (See: The Transformative Power of Kindness) It is a call to rise above the natural inclination towards retaliation and instead offer blessings. (See: The Difference Between Discipline and Retaliation) While this approach may seem to make Christians vulnerable to exploitation, it embodies the transformative power of love and forgiveness. The idea is not to avoid conflict but to address it with a spirit of benevolence that can ultimately change hearts and foster reconciliation.
Proverbs 3:5-8 offers another perspective: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths. Be not wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord, and turn away from evil. It will be healing to your flesh and refreshment to your bones." This advises reliance on God's guidance rather than personal wisdom. In the context of conflict, it reassures Christians that their approach should be grounded in faith and trust in God's plan. While this could seem to open doors for others to take advantage, it underscores a deeper spiritual truth—that divine wisdom will ultimately prevail and bring healing.
While these scriptures acknowledge the possibility of exploitation, they collectively advocate a stance of faith, forgiveness, and trust in God. Christians are encouraged to approach conflict with a heart aligned with God's teachings, knowing that their trials are part of a greater spiritual journey. This perspective offers strength and resilience, transforming potential vulnerability into a testament of unwavering faith.
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